In this Dad Diary, I dive into the transitions that define fatherhood — from co-parenting handovers and long-distance goodbyes to the small but meaningful daycare drop-offs. These moments have taught me that showing up as a dad isn’t about control or perfection; it’s about rhythm, presence, and trust. I also share why my recent reconnection with Reunite International — an organization supporting parents through international custody and relocation challenges — came at the perfect time, and how their mission reminded me of the power of support and shared experience.
This episode explores the emotional terrain of letting go and showing up. I reflect on the early days of co-parenting — the handovers, the tension, and the quiet rituals that helped my son feel safe — and how those lessons continue to shape the way I parent today.
From the big goodbyes of long-distance fatherhood to the daily drop-offs at daycare, I’ve learned that transitions are where connection is built — if we stay present and consistent through them.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
The power of predictable handovers and simple goodbye rituals
Why short, steady transitions work best for kids
Lessons from co-parenting through conflict with compassion
How long-distance parenting shaped my approach to daily connection
A reminder that presence matters more than perfection